Put Your Stuff Away
Charisma is about connecting with people. You can’t connect if you’re distracted by devices or other things. Don’t check your phone. Don’t glance at your monitor. Don’t fuss with your watch or jacket buttons—you don’t want to focus on anything else, even for a moment. Only the people in front of you. Guys with rizz give the gift of full attention. People staying present is so rare today that this gift alone will make others want to be around you and remember you.
Develop Your Conversational Skills
Think of politicians on the campaign trail or a leading man making a talk show appearance. They’re warm and interesting but also make sure to project an authentic interest in others. If you’re heading somewhere new, make sure you’ve got an anecdote to tell (should the opportunity arise). And if you’re looking to think faster on your feet, you could always try an improv class or join a local Toastmasters club to practice your speaking skills.
The Secret to Being More Interesting
This isn’t about acting self-important. The only people impressed by pretentious bragging are other dull, pretentious people. Everyone else is uncomfortable. No, the secret to being more interesting is to cultivate your passions. Charismatic individuals often have various interests and deep understanding of something that radiates naturally through their words and actions. While others are mindlessly scrolling on their phone, you could be taking a cooking class, reading a book about the Roman Empire or volunteering at an animal shelter. You’ll be surprised at how these passions come up in conversation and how it will draw people to you.